What cautions or red flags do I need to know about him?
Would you encourage your daughter to get to know him?
Pray to the Lord, asking Him to clearly reveal to you what He would have you do (Philippians 4:6-7).
Ask God to give you wisdom and discernment (James 1:5).
It is exceedingly difficult to give Christian relationship advice when we do not personally know the people involved, we are not receiving all of the details, and/or we are only receiving one side of the story.
What should I do if I cannot decide who I should be dating? What is the difference between dating and courting?
What are valid reasons for breaking up with a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Don’t rush into a relationship and close your eyes and ears. Taking the time to slow down and ask yourself (and your man) questions is key. Each question could lead you to another question that will help bring clarity.
God promises to grant prayer requests that are asked according to His will (1 John -15).
Being wise and discerning are most definitely God's will. God desires Christians to be joyous and edified as a result of their relationships.
I encourage you to use them as a launching pad to help you discern if this man is someone you should get to know.