“Of course it will probably be uncomfortable for both of you,” Anthony says.“But if he’s so uncomfortable that he gets angry or shuts down or otherwise just can’t continue the conversation, that’s a big sign that he’s not ready for this.” If so, assure your child that there’s no hurry to start dating.It seems to be epidemic in western cultures that value youth. When you date a Philippine woman, age gap is no more important than any other factor.The things a Filipina look for in a man are stability, ability, personality and intelligence."Most of the activity happens in a pack, and communication takes place between friend groups." By 8th grade, dating probably means talking on the phone and hanging out, usually in groups.By high school, kids are more likely to develop serious romantic attachments.
This is assumed because you are smart enough to get to Philippines and charming enough to capture her heart so foreigners start with an advantage here.Notice what "dating" seems to mean to your child and then talk about it.Michelle Anthony, Ph D, a developmental psychologist and learning therapist in Denver, suggests an opening line like: “It sounds like a lot of kids are talking about dating now. ” If you can't tell what dating means to your kid, try discussing dating as shown on TV shows or in movies that are age-appropriate."A 12-year-old who looks 16 isn’t ready to date someone who is 16," Anthony says.You may not love the idea of your child beginning to date, but don't try to pretend it’s not happening.
A typical Philippine woman wants a man who has financially established himself, to the point where he does not need to leave and go to work for days at a time.