It’s more of a success metalhead dating story that I have Tinder to thank for!For the first few months, I couldn’t pick up the pieces of my shattered life.We had so much in common I couldn’t believe it, and he really managed to challenge me intellectually.
At first, there was very little chemistry between us and we just talked for hours the first few times we got together.
He’s a bass player at an underground metal band and I’ve always considered myself his biggest fan.
He broke my heart into pieces when he told me months after our separation she fell in love with him as she watched him perform in her hometown about a year before he’d told me he was leaving.
He’d replaced me as a wife and as his most devoted ‘groupie’.
But this is not a sob story about how I felt following my divorce per se.
I have to say it did little to restore my ruined self-confidence.